Sometimes you want to have a ‘blast’ with your partner, but some of your body parts keep getting in the way. Either you can’t thrust for long because you will need to take a break and catch your breath after every 3 minutes or your arms will hurt like hell. Sometimes you can’t have sex in the air because one of you will end up in hospital with a broken spine. Certain positions might just not work for you because your thighs are a bit heavy and massive or your tummy is not as flat as Rihanna’s. Well, it can suck sometimes but no smooth sea ever made a great sailor!
The good news is; you can still have amazing sex even if the whole world says you are ‘fat’. Let’s check out some of the positions you can try. (Please keep in mind that ‘good communication’ is vital. If a position works for you and not for your partner, both of you are not going to get as much pleasure. So, make sure the two of you are comfortable with whichever style you decide to use.)
For plus size men, doggy style will do wonders for you.
First and foremost, it allows you to go deep into her.
Second, you don’t have to put all your weight on her.
And third, when it gets so hot, there’s less sweat involved compared to body-to-body scenarios.
There are various ways to do this. Both of you can kneel on the bed, or the woman can kneel on the bed but the man stands on the floor, or both of you can stand on the floor and the woman bends to touch the floor or her toes depending on her flexibility.
From experience, if the bed is involved, the woman can bend in a way that her ‘butt’ is up and chest close to the bed, so close that her nipples can touch the bed.
It doesn’t have to be the bed specifically; you could do it on a table or any other flat surface provided you are using the same concept. However, for men with ‘big’ members, the deep penetration might cause some pain for the lady.
Flying legs. This is more like missionary position, but for variety, lift her legs up and place them on your shoulders whilst in the missionary position. You can use pillows, or you can simply elevate her until her butt is barely touching the bed (this will be easy for a man with energy).
This position will find your woman lying on the edge of the bed or a table. Raise her hips with your hands (you can add a pillow under her back to get a better angle) and put her legs on your shoulders and slightly tilt her hips upwards and penetrate her. This position is also great for deep penetration though it can be painful for the lady if you’ve have a ‘big’ member.
Woman on top: This is also good for plus size men. Basically the woman gets in control. The man can lie on the bed in the missionary position and the woman gets on top of him. Still, there are various ways to do this style. She can either face him while touching the bed or his knees, or she can face his feet (also know as reverse cowgirl). In cases where the man is lighter than the woman, they can still use this style and the man can thrust from down.
For plus size women, this should make it easier for you to have a blast.
a) Sitting up on the kitchen counter will give you great balance and control. Then your man can enter you from the front. If he needs access assistance, there is nothing wrong with him standing on a small stool or something else. You’re then able to have fun with no concerns about him or you holding up your weight.
b) Lie on your side with your knees bent. You can use pillows if you need extra support. He can enter from the back or the front. If from the front, see if you feel comfortable putting a leg up on his shoulder. This can bring you both great pleasure.